Bondage: A Step-by-Step Guide

 

Bondage? You place it vaguely between a scene from the movie 50 Shades of Gray and your Sunday roast. In short, you are not very stuck on the subject. What is the origin of Bondage? How to practice Bondage? What is BDSM sex? Discover our well-crafted topic (#huhu) about this erotic practice that boosts desire and libido!

Bondage: let’s start with a little introduction

Bondage is actually the art of rope and lacing. Astonishing but highly erotic. Of course, we are here far from the simple lacing of shoes … but strangely near the lacing of marine ropes.

We will explain it a little further (#suspense).

Without burdening you with a pompous and boring preamble, it is necessary to approach the notion of self-confidence but also of one’s partner. Without it, the sexual practice of Bondage can quickly turn into a fiasco … And do not veil the face: you deserve better for your evening Saturday night.

By feeling completely safe with your partner, you manage to let go completely. And maybe even to reach ecstasy, like that, sensually with the fingertips …

Bondage: what is it?

The whole principle of Bondage rests on the opposition between the dominant, the one who ties the ropes, and the dominated, the one who is attached.

The pleasure of the dominant? See the other to offer him full confidence, to appreciate and magnify each part of the body of his / her partner but above all, to be the sole decision maker of the turn that takes this erotic game.

The pleasure of the dominated? To be able to surrender completely to the hands of the dominant and give free rein to his spirit. To be able to feel pleasure in being touched, to be observed without any guilt, since it has no influence on the present moment.

By knotting the strings around the body of his partner, according to a specific rite, we press on certain strategic arteries that cause a wave of pleasure. But be careful to tie them properly, without overtightening so as not to endanger your partner.

Bondage: what are the origins?

Bondage is actually an ancestral sexual practice. Initially, it is a torture practiced by the Japanese army. Not very engaging. Nevertheless, in the 15th century, it is elevated to the rank of art by the Japanese aristocracy which turns it into an erotic practice called Shibari.

It is not a sexual practice strictly speaking but rather a sensual abandonment and consented to achieve a form of letting go close to ecstasy. The practice of Shibari is subject to many rules.

First of all, the rope must be made of hemp. And the many knots that constitute the act must be made in a precise and above all, aesthetic.

Bondage: how to practice it?

To start, the best is still to go step by step, gently … but surely. Why not start with a simple scarf hanging on the bar of your bed? A soft practice that looks a bit like BDSM sex (sadomasochistic) and is not less erotic.

The person thus hooked surrenders entirely to the expert hands of his partner. But to go further and dare this sexual practice original in the rules of art, you can study its operation through this tutorial to learn Bondage, for example, or learn about the different courses offered in your city.

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