50 Nuances of Grey: bondage explained to dummies?

 

After the incredible success of the book (more than 2 million copies sold in France), place the film that is released on February 11, 2015. With 50 Nuances of Gray, it is the BDSM sex that is revealed to the general public.

Let’s start at the beginning. What does “BDSM” mean? Learn that it means “Bondage – Discipline – Domination – Submission – Sadism – Masochism”. The question is whether the film will live up to the expectations it has raised.

If we stick to the clips of the BO of 50 shades of Gray, the erotic atmosphere would be at the rendezvous. You only have to start by watching the one of the song Earned It. It’s a nice appetizer. We even see Dakota Johnson (aka Anastasia) in full bondage.

As the journalist Cécile de Sèze evoked for RTL, “in order not to shock the youngest and puritans, the producers preferred the absence of male frontal nudity. On the other hand, nothing is specified in this sense concerning the nudity of the actress. A naked woman, it shocks less. ”

A naked woman, that shock less? What? 50 Shades of Gray is NOT THE film that will take us out of the prehistoric age of ordinary sexism? Oh no. Missed.

Make visible another form of melee

On the other hand, the book and the film have “at least” the merit of evoking the BDSM and to make visible another form of body-to-body. This does not revolutionize our sexualities but opens a few minds.

Sade would be happy. In short, do not go see the movie of Sam Taylor-Johnson thinking that you will attend a session worthy of that of Much More Pussy: real anthem to unbridled sexuality. No, you will not see that.

You will simply see the adaptation of a popular novel that has thrilled almost 50 million people around the world.

“The trilogy was easy to read, it was good in a reading of entertainment. It was sex with a little spice SM: just enough to chastise the housewife under 50 years! But as far as film adaptation is concerned, I think we’ll get a watered down version. Especially in the United States, the sex on the screen is still quite small, and yet it is the main subject of the book, right? “Wonders Valérie Bello, bookseller at LivresBoiBel.

We expect to see “sex made in America”, that is to say people who make love with a piece of cloth at hand to hide those breasts that can not be seen. on the other hand, unlimited access to the beautiful abs of the actor … In short, it will be no more trash than an erotic scene between two characters Lego! “smiles Rachel who has not read the book and who certainly will not see the film.

According to CNC Film Classification Commission Chairman Jean-François Mary, “it’s not a film that (…) can shock a lot of people,” he told Premier magazine.

Yes, but still! How to bring some “hot” phrases to the screen and make sure that everyone is there?

Answer: minimize the sex scenes, as paradoxical as it may seem. Opt for the frustration of a part of the readers-spectators by privileging the potential spectators-voyeurs in puberty, easily satiated.

In the end, there would still be 20 minutes of sex. And just for you, here is the terms of the BDSM way 50 Shades of Gray.

BDSM common Terms

The banner: it’s a bit of the basis of BDSM. A sleep mask (stolen in an airplane for example) will do the trick too! The desired sensation? Shiver at the idea of ​​losing your bearings and let your partner take things in hand … Next step: the hood (leather or latex).

The whip: you do not tap on any part of the body with a whip (also called a whip or a whip). The ideal? Whip the buttocks and thighs, that is to say the most fleshy parts where the sensations are the strongest … It is also possible to whip the breasts and sex but very slightly. To proscribe: the belly.

The practice of bondage: “Tie me if you can!” In BDSM, bondage refers to neither more nor less all situations where the subject is hindered. The drunkenness sought here: the inability to move and the feeling of helplessness provided by being attached

Ropes: If you tie your partner’s hands with a piece of cloth, it’s already bondage. With ropes, it’s still bondage. And if you opt for Japanese strings, bondage turns into kinbaku, a sensational art …

Handcuffs: playing police is good, with handcuffs it’s better! Again, the sensations sought are the same: let go and test its limits smoothly. Handcuffs metal, fur, leather, fantasy or even mini-handcuffs … It’s up to you to play.

Wandering hands: there is sometimes no need for many accessories to do good … Hand games, naughty games … To pinch the nipples of your partner, your fingers are a good introduction. Next step: nipple pliers made of metal, wood or plastic. Not to mention the fist-fucking.

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